Cup of Java

Saturday-8: "This, This, this and this...It all has to go...."
1. We all know at least one person personally who we believe is not conducting their lives properly or at least in the way we want them to conduct. Now the control is in your hands. First, what exactly is this person doing wrong? What would you do now that you are in control? Is this entirely for their benefit or does it benefit you too? The person is trying way to hard to find love. I'd get them to relax, stop being so "on the prowl" and let them see things just happen (and more so when you're not expecting them to). It only benefits me in that I wouldn't have to hear them complaining about it when I have to hang out with them.
2. Name something about yourself personally that you should get rid of but probably will not ever be able to change and then tell why? resentment...i've tried and sometimes I can get rid of it for a while but I've yet to be totally rid of it.
3. Whenever we open up our closets, it is almost universal that there is something in there that we should probably throw away. In the closet that is your mind and your heart, what do you need to throw away? What is this that you are hiding and really shouldn't anymore? Why are you hiding it and holding on to it? see above.
4. Speaking of hiding, what is the biggest current lie in your life? It can be your lie or a lie that you are living and protecting that was created by and for someone else? Why do you continue to live it? Under what circumstances was it born? (You may be vague on some of the description of the lie in order to avoid to much trouble.) I dont have one right now.
5. Now, here is a chance to be a little charitable. Pick something that is a good in your life and give it away to someone who you thinks probably would deserve it as much, if not more, than you. What is it? Why has it been so good for you? Why are you willing to let it go? What do you think it will do for the next person? How do you think you would do without it? I'd give my Pattington bear to some kid who needs something to make them feel safe. It's worked for me and means the world to me. I'd have trouble letting it go but, I'd find something else and make do.
6. You are gathered with the ten most important (and applicapable) people, you turn to each of them and tell them one person, place, thing, concept, habit or whatever, that is garbage in their lives and they should get rid of it. I really don't know what to do with this one so I'll leave it for later.
7. This is a question that can be asked a thousand times and a thousand different ways. Imagine one person in your life, they could be very central to you or a bit more peripheal, but you just might not need them anymore. No names are necessary, what are they to you. Why do you keep them around? Why should you probably not keep them around anymore? Will you ever really let them go? I don't think I really have any useless people in my life, unless you count some of the friends of C...but they are more in his life than mine.
8. This is just a question. Which is better, to live life with every things that you could want or need or could possibly be good for you or to live like without anything that ever could be bad for you in your life? I'm not really sure.